Being somewhat insulted, I realized that this is the same kind of victim blaming that happens to women when they try to enter a predominantly male field. May as well tell them to get ahead in corporate America by showing a little leg, or perhaps trying to be more motherly. If they get upset about the mistreatment, they are being too emotional, if they become callous they are a man-hating ball-busters. When your dream job is set in stone for the opposite gender, you just can't win. Everyone just says, "Ignore the problem, be bigger than your critics, overcome."
So let me go on record as saying, There is no reason a man can't give exactly as good a general relaxation massage as a woman, and there is no reason why men should be pushed out of that arena because of social pressures. It is society, not us, that is wrong. I'm not sorry for being a man, but I do feel sorry for all the people who will never experience a great massage because they are afraid of me.